Successful Women Speak Differently By Valorie Burton

"What you speak is who you become!" As quoted by Valorie Burton in her book Successful Women Speak Differently. The most successful women all have a special gift that makes them unique, with the experience to back it up! What these women can do best is, communicate. This very skill opens doors and enhances their influence. Valorie is a best-selling author and a strategist who shares many gems you will cherish forever. 

Several scientific studies show that the power of everything, including life and death, is all the in words you speak. You will recognize the great nuances in speech, which may mean the difference between success and failure. You can increase your influence by changing what you think and communicate in critical moments. It would be best to learn how to speak accurately about all your goals  and prevent yourself from self-sabotaging your dreams. It will help if you boost your confidence by making little and simple tweaks to your daily speech. Your words are the most powerful things that you have control over, and you need to use them to build the life you want. 

Have you ever wondered what successful women are doing differently than ordinary women? Is this something we all can learn, maybe? Valorie has discovered that most successful women do only two things differently from the rest through her book. She has related real-life incidents from the lives of many successful women. She has done practical research and has spiritual insights quoted in this book to support her verdicts. The most successful people are often those who make wise decisions at an early point in their lives. Then manage those decisions for their whole life. This is major advice, especially for millennials, and gives a road map to model for the future. 

Your ability to influence people is directly linked to whether or not they are in favor of you and like you. Valorie recommends that the way to boost your influence with people is to appreciate the good you see in people. Patterns of speech can also predict the likelihood of success you may achieve. Women will mostly try to soften their voices, making their statements appear more like a question and showing uncertainty. Valorie is a strong believer in your thoughts massively shaping your actions. To become more aware of your thoughts and also redirect them to productive ones. When you have something very important that you must get across, she recommends practicing it and sometimes recording it to hear how you sound.

 A strong voice is interrupted a lot less and is believed to be authentic. A few ways to improve how you deliver your voice are: breathe completely and correctly, stand straight, and lower your pitch with a slow pace delivery of words. You might have seen two people saying the same phrases, but their statements have another meaning, and they are also heard differently by people. It is the slight changes that can make a huge difference. One of the ideal ways to improve the vocal essence is to listen to your voice and record it. 

One other great way that Valorie gives in her book is not to fill the silence. Often, we keep talking without any reason to cover the silence up, especially when we are nervous. In complete silence, a huge breakthrough can take place. Another tip is always to tune out the distractions and give your complete attention to an ongoing conversation. This way, you can build strong relationships. 

Valorie suggests that having exercise sessions every single day is a practice to reduce negative energy. Successful women do two things that make them different from others. They think differently about how they face challenges and opportunities and speak differently in everyday conversations. They deal with crucial conversations at work in the same way. The confidence you use to communicate includes credibility, presence, and voice, which can become far more influential than talents and efforts. Valorie has written 9 books, and Successful Women Think Differently is such a huge success. 

Through her book, she tells other women to become a stronger individual and gain more control and hold over how they live and lead in their lives—having strong communication with your colleagues and daily life processes. Most people tend to lower their standards for certain conversations, but that often makes people think less of you. The way you process your words and let your thoughts come out decides how people will perceive you. Valorie has always talked about the strength of thought and words. This is what she wants her readers to learn about and become more authentic in delivering the words. 

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